Thursday, July 31, 2014

Bangkok Arrival

Dear Friends,

I arrived in Bangkok on the night of July 22, after a logistically perfect but physically arduous trip.  21 hours of travel, gate to gate, is 21 hours of travel—in commercial.

And it’s been non-stop activity since then.  

If I wait until I can write a polished blog post, it’ll never get done, so to quote my friend BSK, “good is good, but done is better.”

In abbreviated form, here are some of my first impressions of Bangkok:

Thai people truly live up to their reputations, and are noticeably gracious.  One of the secretaries at RIS, in helping print out a map of the neighborhood, said, “Thai people are very nice. They will help you if you need it.”  I’ve lived in a variety of places, and in each one, I’m certain that people would help out a lost stranger.  But to speak so categorically (which several people have done here, in describing their compatriots’ likelihood of offering assistance) is not something that would ever occur to me.

The food is wonderful (fresh fruits, grilled chicken, noodle dishes), but the irony is that I’ve had very little appetite.  For the first week, I ate only two meals a day, and even now, in many instances I feel full after only a few bites.  It’s so hot and humid that nature provides an appetite suppressant equivalent to gastric bypass.  Since the body doesn’t need to work to keep itself warm, however, I doubt that many Farang (Americans/Westerners) lose weight here.    

Yes, Bangkok is tropical, but the heat isn’t as oppressive as I’d feared it would be.  So far.  We newcomers have been told that we’ve been extremely fortunate with the weather that greeted our arrival.

My years in Arkansas prepared me for how heavy the rain showers can be, but a South East Asian storm is something to behold.  I got caught in one while out on my bicycle, and I felt as though I were underwater, I was so drenched. 

It’s great to be in a large cohort of new teachers, many of whom are veteran international educators, and almost all of whom are very experienced travelers.  

A blog isn’t a journal, but since I named mine after Wonder Woman’s Lasso of Truth, here’s the confessional part, so it doesn’t all sound like: “Wow, everything is so exotic!” I was only intellectually prepared for how alienating it is to be in a place in which I don’t have any access to the language, whether aurally, verbally, or visually (the script is lovely to look at, but is impenetrable to me).  Google Translate is a great tool, but it can only get you so far.  I’m an enthusiastic pantomimer, and I readily and regularly impose on that famous Thai kindness by asking strangers for help (or whether they speak any English, or both), but until I take “Survival Thai” (and after, too, no doubt), the language barrier when I’m out in the city is tremendous.

And this isn’t very P.C. to say, but I’ve never been to a developing country before, and the adjustment has been harder for me than it has been for my fellow newcomers who have traveled much more broadly than I.  

One quickly adjusts to seeing the very wealthy areas and the very poor areas in close proximity to one another.  My school, and the immediate neighborhood in which I’ve rented a (modest) house, is in an upscale area, but where the roads go over the klongs (canals), one can see from the bridges extensive developments of shanty towns along the waterways.  

There are tons of stray dogs (called soi dogs, which essentially means “backstreet dogs”). Elsewhere, this would be terrifying (and I do stay on guard), but unless they pack up, the soi dogs seem to live up to this Buddhist country’s reputation for mellowness.

Which brings me to the political situation: thankfully, I don’t even notice it.  On the main road from Min Buri (the district in which I live and work) to downtown, one very occasionally passes a military checkpoint, and when I say “passes,” I mean “passes by,” not “passes through.”


I’ll address being a tourist in future posts, but for now, here is a picture of me and some new friends in the back of a Tuk Tuk taxi in downtown Bangkok.  You only do it when you’re a tourist, and maybe only once. But it was fun.


11 comments:

  1. I am entering this note again, as I am not sure that it posted. Thank you for letting us know that you have arrived and doing well. It looks like you will make many friends among the teachers, Keep us up-to-date. Tres amicalement. Bernard

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    1. Merci, Bernard! I carry with me many fond memories of having such a great time with you and Joan and your family in July. Have a great rest of the summer, Fiona

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  2. Glad---and not at all surprised---that you've landed upon your feet.

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    1. Thank you, Sharon! It was wonderful to see you in June.

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  3. First of all, I really enjoyed reading your first post-arrival post! Your descriptions of your impressions and fears were so fresh and fun! I'm looking forward to reading more about your future adventures!

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    1. Love the handle, but I'm sorry I don't know who this is. Can you e-mail me at murfiona@gmail.com, so I can match the friend to the alias? And thank you for the kind words!

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    2. I solved the mystery by reading your own beautiful blog. I'm a fan!

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  4. I'm so happy you arrived safely! :) I know you already mentioned that you've been introduced to your school, but have you started teaching already, or will that still be a while?

    I'm glad you're having so much fun. :) As always, you're an inspiration! I'm really itching to go to Japan now... haha!

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    1. Kelsey, great to hear from you. Yes, go to Japan! School starts mid-week this coming week (Thursday? I should know this). I DON'T feel prepared, but I'm also really excited. When you go to Japan, you'll have an easier time with the culture shock than I am having, because you know so much about the language and the culture. Apply for an Academic Enrichment Grant! This is your year!

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  5. I'm so glad to have a little window into your world and happy that it is going WHEW HEW GREAT!!!! Of course it is! I look forward to your next posts. Hugs, Sorena :-)

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    1. Dearest Sorena, I'm very happy to be here, but I wouldn't say it's been going great. I'm trying to be honest (uncool though it may be) about some of the bumps in the road. For instance, this is an all cash economy (something I didn't know beforehand), my Thai bank account isn't set up yet (and doesn't have any money in it anyway), and on Wednesday night, the ATM just shut down with my U.S. debit card in it. I never got it back! And calling my bank repeatedly, because we kept getting disconnected, turned out NOT to be a reverse charges call, as advertised, so suddenly my phone ran out of minutes/data. So I was stuck with no money and no phone. Great. OK, I wasn't penniless, obviously, but I'd needed the cash I was trying to withdraw to pay the deposit on my house the following day. It was a little more challenging than I really appreciated. Sending love to you and Raymond.

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